I’ve found that I am beyond dating. There’s so much social expectation involved between the two parties going through the motions of the date. We each have some unspoken expectations of each other that we’re each attempting to communicate with one another that asks the questions we want to ask without asking them more bluntly. We’re trying to learn about the entirety of a person in a few dates to decide if that person is the right one for what we want. This is why I choose Londongirls over dating at this time in my life. It’s simpler. It’s more enjoyable and often enough, cheaper too.
Does that make me a bad person? I don’t think so! I have no doubt that I am judged for this.The fact that we place so much morality upon sex has never made sense to me. A relationship should be preserved in a more moral fashion but a relationship by itself does not constitute sex and vice versa. Sex is just sex. It’s an act between two or more people who can choose to decide what the act of sex means to them. Sex is merely an act of pleasurable satisfaction for me right now in life. I don’t need anything more from it so why laden it with a relationship?
I don’t want any drama in my life. This ensures that I’m able to cut down on it almost completely. I don’t have to worry about the feelings of my partner and how they perceive a relationship. I don’t have to go through the motions of finding someone who wants the exact same thing that I want. I don’t have to worry about hurting anyone else. It’s a financial exchange between two individuals who know exactly what they want and need from the other person.